Single and okay with it.

So, I have been very okay with my singlism lately. oops that makes it sound like a religion or something. LOL

Peoples relationship problems made me see that I like the drama free life I'm living. I'm going to enjoy myself and if some guy comes along that's worth my time Great. No more crushing for me, the guys I like will simply know that I like them. No chasing for me either. If they like me back they can do the work. None of the 'why hasn't he called?' tears or "does he like me?' panic for me.

I believe the guy who is worth the tears would never make me cry intentionally. It drives me insane when I see people in messed up relationships. Why let your significant other hit our verbally abuse you? That's not love or even like. If a dude ever hit me, adrenaline would kick in and I would knock him back into his mommas womb. I don't need drama I have been surrounded by it for way too long. I guess it has made me who I am, a girl who won't waste her time in any of these situations.

I think people shouldn't take dating so seriously until they are at the ready for marriage phase. I'd say 27 to 35 is a safe time. I agree with what Neil said today. This isn't how he put it but I interpreted it this way. Girls 18 to 23 aren't sure what the want and are drama seeking crazy people. (sadly I'm still 23. I'm so over the drama though. I know what I want.) I can't say that's a fact or anything. There are some exceptions. like me! LOL. I have met some boys (16 to 20) who are extremely mature and I have met some men (let's say 27 to 40) who are utterly immature. (hence a lot of immature ones)

I really want everyone to evaluate who they are and what they want out of a relationship before entering one. If you want a one night stand, a Church is not a good place to find one. LOL If you want something serious don't go to the clubs, no one has their right mind when they are there, drunk or not. Also be honest with the person, tell them what you are looking for. Save yourself the trouble, with any luck they may only want a "sleeping buddy" too. LOL I just thought of Joey using these quotations wrong on Friends. What a great Show! (Hope I used them correctly) LOL

In conclusion, I like being single for now. I love flirting and will continue to do so.

Later everyone!